Sunday, November 18, 2007

The Day My Roommate Went too Far....

So later that day I talked to my boyfriend and I just told him that I didn't like that he was being responsive to my roommate like that. "She's a flirt by nature, but you need to be better at handling that," I said. So then he said that I should have told him that she's a flirt. I just said that he can't have me around him all the time, telling him who is a flirt. He's just going to have to know these things on his own. So we talked about this outside in the soccer stadium at our school at night...so it was a nice atmosphere. And he was very good at listening to my concern, and addressed them all, so I can't fault him. He is a good boyfriend all and all.


So in one of the later weeks, my boyfriend and I had planned to hang out that Saturday night, but nothing had been finalized. So until he called to say for sure that we would be hanging out, I would be going to a party with some friends. I told my friend Nana that I had no clue what I could wear, because I have no clubbing clothes. So we were going upstairs to her room to look for clothes to wear. She has this gorgeous brown dress that she wore to a party before, and I wanted to wear that dress. So I took it out of the closet and tried it on. Well...the difference between her and I is that I have a much larger bra size. The brown dress was the kind of dress you don't wear with a bra (it was a halter) and it was just not working with me.

So perhaps my roommate got jealous or something...but then she just went off on me. Told me to take the dress off, and started to tell me that I was a bad girlfriend. That if my boyfriend was her boyfriend she would hang out with him every single day and blah blah blah. And I was just thinking where does this girl get off telling me all of these things when:

1.) She didn't know I had a boyfriend until less than a month before
2.) She doesn't have a boyfriend and can't maintain a relationship with any guy because she flirts around A LOT!

Later my boyfriend and I decided to hang out, and she was like "wrap it up," make sure you use a condom etc. That was the final straw. Where does this girl get off insinuating what I do in my relationships? It's not even any of her business because we are NOWHERE near best friends. But anyways...long story short. I was upset, and my roommates said she was a 'female dog' the entire night. She got upset when another friend of mine wanted to come in her car, so they decided to take that girl's car, and my roommate of course invited herself into the car (since she was no longer driving). My roommate wanted to stay, but everyone else didn't like the party. So the whole time, my roommate kept saying that if she knew everyone was going to be like that then she would have taken her car. And the girl that drove was about to slap her because she never asked my roommate to come in her car.

I hope that all made sense....